Chapter 23 - The Ultimatum

By the time Holodex started taking shape as more than just an idea, it had already become an obsession. I could see its potential so clearly—the innovation it could bring, the impact it could have. But not everyone in my life shared that vision.
At the time, I was married. My wife wasn’t exactly thrilled about my new venture. I can’t blame her entirely—Holodex wasn’t your typical project. It was unconventional, ambitious, and, in her eyes, risky. What started as frustration over the time I spent on it quickly grew into something bigger, a wedge driving itself between us.
Eventually, it all came to a head. One night, she gave me an ultimatum: Holodex or me.
It was devastating. How do you even begin to choose between something that feels like your purpose and someone you love? To be put in that position felt unfair, like I was being asked to cut out a piece of my soul.
But deep down, I think I already knew the answer. Holodex wasn’t just a project—it was my vision, my passion, the culmination of everything I’d dreamed about since I was a kid making magazines and hacking Quake. It wasn’t something I could just walk away from, even for the sake of my marriage.
I chose Holodex.
It wasn’t an easy decision, and the fallout was messy, painful, and left scars that took years to heal. But looking back, I don’t regret it. The choice wasn’t really between her and Holodex—it was between stifling who I was or embracing it fully, no matter the cost.
That moment taught me something invaluable: when you have a vision, when you feel called to create something that matters, you have to be willing to make sacrifices. It’s not easy, and it’s not always fair, but it’s the price of following your truth.